Warren Buffett’s Principles to Transformation: BONUS
The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.
– Warren Buffett
At first glance, this might seem counterintuitive. Isn’t success about saying yes to opportunities, pushing yourself to do more, and always learning?
Yes—and no.
The most accomplished professionals don’t spread themselves thin. They focus on what truly moves the needle, eliminating distractions that dilute their energy and progress.
And if you’re a busy professional trying to improve your English, this lesson is just as relevant as it is in business.
Are You Saying Yes to Too Many Things?
Many professionals struggle with saying “no”, whether it’s to extra projects, unnecessary meetings, or unrealistic expectations. The result? Often it is burnout, frustration, and a constant sense of being “busy” without making real progress.
The same pitfall is true for language learning.
When professionals decide to improve their English, they often try to do everything at once: (and believe me, I have fallen into that trap myself, so I speak from experience!):
- Watching YouTube videos while driving but never using what they learn;
- Downloading multiple language apps but rarely opening them;
- Joining courses without a plan to apply what they learn; and/or
- Jumping between different methods without consistency.
It’s no wonder many feel stuck or overwhelmed.
After a long day of work, who has the energy to sit down and study? Even thinking about where to start can be exhausting.
Psychologists Roy Baumeister and John Tierney explain in Willpower that mental energy is a limited resource. And as Barry Schwartz discusses in The Paradox of Choice, when we have too many options, we often freeze—or make ineffective choices.
So, what’s the solution?
The Power of a Strategic No
For me, Warren Buffett’s advice rings true, though it took me by surprise the first my business coach said to me “before you start figuring out what to do, I want you to tell me what you will eliminate from what you already do.”
Buffett’s advice is similar. It isn’t about rejecting every opportunity. It is more about choosing the right ones. The same principle applies to learning English.
Instead of saying yes to every resource, app, or study technique, start saying no to what doesn’t serve your goals.
Say no to scattered, passive-only learning. Listening to podcasts while driving is great – and I am a big fan – but don’t stop there. Take 30 seconds afterward to summarize what you heard, even if just in your head.
Say no to methods that don’t fit your needs. If your priority is business communication, don’t spend hours on casual conversation practice. Focus on the language you actually need.
Say no to unrealistic expectations. Fluency doesn’t happen overnight. Focus on steady, consistent improvement.
By eliminating what doesn’t work, you create space for what does work.
What Should You Say Yes To?
Focused Learning: choose one or two high-quality resources and stick with them. Consistency beats variety.
Deliberate Practice: instead of just consuming content, engage with it. Summarize a podcast. Repeat key phrases out loud. Write a LinkedIn post using new vocabulary.
Small Active Steps: use dead time wisely. If you’re driving and listening to a podcast, summarize it afterward. If you’re cooking, describe what you’re doing in English.
Real-World Application: the best way to learn is by doing. Prioritize speaking, writing, and using English in your work environment.
Setting Boundaries: if improving your English is important, schedule it like any other business priority.
Your Turn: What Will You Say No To?
Are you trying to learn everything at once? Are you saying yes to distractions that keep you from real progress?
Today, choose one thing to stop doing. One unnecessary resource, one ineffective habit, one distraction, and replace it with focused, intentional learning.
Success in language learning, just like in business, isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what truly matters.
So…what will you say no to today?
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